Not just Dirty Talk

Most people feel completely embarrassed at the thought of trying it, just because they’ve never learned how to talk dirty during sex.

In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the hopefully-soon-to-be dirty talker suddenly freezes up like a soaking wet roll of toilet paper thrown out of an igloo in Antartica.

“What should I say? What do they want me to say? What if I go too far? What if I can’t go far enough, or just sound lame, or stupid?”

Dirty talk is an often overlooked but very powerful aspect of eroticism. It activates the imagination, supercharges sexual polarity, and adds a steamy air of liberation to shenanigans.

Just like sex itself, dirty talk is something that needs to be calibrated to whoever is receiving it. Maybe something that you qualify as ‘dirty talk’ is something the other person might find offensive, silly, or straight up insane, and vice versa.

The phrase “dirty talk” isso negitive as there is nothing dirty about sex, or talking about sex. This is what people call it. I prefer to call it erotic talk.

Dirty Talk: Beginner Level

Whether you’re starting out with dirty talk for the first time ever, or you’re starting to have sex with a new partner and just want to slowly test the waters, the following phrases have you covered.

– That feels amazing baby

– Come sit on my lap, love

– Mmm… do you like that?

– I need you right now

– Just lie back and let me take care of you

– I’m getting so turned on/wet/hard

– Tell me what you like/if this is too hard/when you’re about to come

– You look so beautiful/handsome/gorgeous/manly right now

– What do you feel like doing to me?

– I love how your hands feel on me

– I love when you talk to me like that

– I love when you grab me like that

– I love when you look at me like that

– I love it when you growl

– You are so sexy

– Ughhh… I love your body so much

– I feel so sexy when I’m in your arms

– I love how you look at me when you’re turned on

– You can have me any way you want me baby

– Mmm… I can tell that you’re having fun

– Where do you want to cum?

– You feel so good inside of me baby

– I want you inside of me

– I want you to tease me until I can’t take it any longer

– I could spend all day between your legs

– I love feeling you this deep inside of me

– I can’t wait to taste you on my lips

– Mmm… you taste so good baby.

– Your beautiful body feels so good in my hands baby

– Are you ready for me to enter you?

– I love what you’re doing to me right now

– I’m getting close

Dirty Talk: Intermediate Level

So you’ve been around the block and you’re looking for something new that makes your partner that much harder/wetter. Skim through the following, grab a few of your favourite phrases and incorporate them into your dirty talk pronto. And if these are still too tame for you, the next section will kick things up a notch.

– I love it when I can feel you squeeze your pussy around me

– I want you to cum for me

– I want you to cum all over me

– I want you to cum inside of me

– You’re going to forget your name after I’m done fucking you tonight

– (When you like something that they’ve done/they’re doing) Mmmmm… good girl

– Relax… just lie back and let me make you cum

– I want to dominate you tonight

– Your cock fits in me so perfectly

– You have a very talented little mouth

– You have such a perfect little pussy… I love it so much

– You have such a perfect/gorgeous cock… I love it so much

– I want you to dominate me tonight

– (Taking her hand and putting it over her vagina) Show me how you touch yourself baby… I want to see you surrendering into your deepest pleasure for me

– Mmm… I fucking love it when you ride me like this

– Get on your knees, now

– Is this pussy yours? Are you going to take it?

– You look like a sexy little angel with your lips wrapped around me like this

– I love sucking your cock so much

– Pound my little pussy with your big cock daddy

– I’m going to drain every last ounce of cum out of you

– Tell me how much you love it when I fuck you/when you fuck me

– I want you to fuck me in front of the mirror baby

– Do whatever you want with me daddy

– I want you to be as loud as you can when you cum

– You have such a perfect ass/cock/pussy/body/etc.

– You’re a good little slut, aren’t you?

– Ask for permission before you cum… I want to hear you beg for it

– You look so fucking sexy right now

– Cum in my mouth. I want to taste you.

– Mmm… good girl. I want you to cum for me, hard.

Dirty Talk: Advanced Level

The following dirty talk examples are not for the faint of heart and these phrases probably shouldn’t be attempted within the first month of your new relationship.

(Sexual context has already been set between the As with most things to do with eroticism, it’s often the least politically correct things that are some of the biggest turn ons behind closed bedroom doors.)

So if you’re into it and your partner is into it, use these advanced level dirty talk phrases to your hearts content. Let your kinky freak flag fly!

– Tell me how badly you want me to fuck you

– Show me how wet you are my little slut

– I want you to fuck me until we wake up the neighbours

– Stand up and fuck me

– Fuck me harder!

– Yeah daddy, give me every last drop of your delicious cum

– I love it when you grind that little clit on me

– Use me like your little fuck toy

– I own this pretty little pussy

– I want you to gag on my cock/fuck my face

– Ride me harder

– Keep that pretty little mouth open to me when I’m fucking it

– I love sucking your cock daddy

– I’m your whore

– Yeah, ruin my pussy. Take it!

– What a well behaved little whore you are

– You own me

– Mmmmm… yeah, fuck my face

– That pretty little face deserves to get fucked

– Don’t make a sound until I tell you to… and if you do, I’m going to pause and wait until you can be quiet again, like a good little boy/girl

– You’re going to need crutches when I’m done fucking you

– Tell me who owns this fucking pussy

– Fuck me daddy. Don’t stop!

Dirty Talk Supercharges Your Sex Life

I know dirty talk can feel intimidating at times, but the best thing you can do is start with something tame, and just gets your lips moving.

Start small, ramp up over time, and ask your partner (outside of your sexual play) if they have any preferences as to the words that you do or don’t use in your dirty talk repertoire.

It can be a little uncomfortable at first, but there is such a sense of freedom that comes with allowing your dirty talk to flow freely. It truly does shift the entire dynamic of your sex life. It will change you, your partner’s, and your neighbours’ lives forever.

Dedicated to your success.

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Grew up being a good Catholic girl fitting into that image of the girl next door. Went to an all girl Catholic High School and got an education both in the classroom, in sports and socially with my peers. Now I am grown up. As I meet the challenges of life head on. Many of my Catholic school values have been tested and a few have moved into a gray area.

In high school I found there really is a gray area as everything is not either black or white. Just like all girls are not interested in just boys. Teen age girls growing up and developing have lots to talk about and it is their friends who help blur the image in self discovery.

Girls can have very close friends which they often date in one manner or another. In high school it was much easier than now as a grown young lady. I am still that Catholic Girl, that girl next door, local babysitter, tomboy, and fun person. I have traded in my catholic school girl uniform to work attire and still wear something sexy just underneath. Like in my teen years, I love Fashions. And so much more…

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